And Another Thing....

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Also up on the website...columns on the GLBT Expo, Gen. Pace, church, drawing.

Still need to get most of March and all of Feb. up there, but it's coming along....

This week's column

    I was not looking for a girlfriend.
    I was not looking for a girlfriend.
    I was not looking for a girlfriend.
    So why is it that I found myself, credit card in hand, subscribing to Match.com? Suddenly, there I was, diligently filling in multiple choice questions about religion and children and fitness activities. I huddled over the “About Me” section, trying to make myself sound cute, interesting, smart, date-worthy. If I had concentrated this hard while taking the LSATS maybe I would have scored higher.
    Of course, in dating there is no “scoring higher.” There is only scoring.

Read the rest at www.jennifervanasco.com  just click on the "column" header.

church

Being on that church panel was amazing today.

I'll write-all tomorrow.

Also Monday: look for updated columns on the website.

bock bock

Max and I walked by an empty lot today about two blocks from our house.

In the lot were two chickens. A proud rooster and a very fluffy hen. Around the corner from the Rite Aid.

Love this City.

Thugbians

The Village Voice has a story on thugbians---HipHop lesbians who take on the aggressive, misogynistic attitudes of the worst kind of masculinity.

I find this both disturbing—and hot.

Why are we attracted to things that are bad for us and for our community? I wouldn't want to be in a relationship like the one they describe, but I gotta admit, I would be into it for a few hours.

I think. Minus the actual physical violence part.

Tmewarp

I have fallen into the strange time vortex that is Long Island---plus last weekend's Chicago flashback. I should resurface next week. Stay tuned...